My boyfriend’s libido has plummeted — is it my fault we hardly have sex anymore?
No matter what she tries, he’s not in the mood (Picture: Emily Manley/Metro.co.uk) Sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but a lack of physical intimacy is a deal breaker for many people. It can...
View ArticleThese are the best (and worst) days of the week for a first date
A tricky decision (Picture: Getty Images/iStockphoto) It’s one thing actually matching with someone you’re interested in on a dating apps like Hinge or Bumble, but it’s quite another setting up a...
View ArticleI went on five minute date with a stranger then we had hot sex against a wall
Nina has ditched the apps for single events instead (Picture: Getty) Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger. This week we hear...
View ArticleI spent my holiday having casual sex every night, now I feel ashamed
She’s feeling ’empty and depressed’ (Picture: Emily Manley/Metro.co.uk) Some people say that to get over one person, you have to get under another. This week’s Sex Column reader tried to follow this...
View ArticleThis unassuming hotel item is being used to satisfy couples’ cuck fetishes —...
Have you noticed this in hotels you’ve visited? (Picture: Getty Images/iStockphoto) Most hotel rooms will contain the same basics; a bed, wardrobe, a chair, and bathroom. On your travels, you probably...
View ArticleAutumn is the season for the ‘lover girl’ — here are all the telltale signs...
Autumn is here, and it’s the season for ‘lover girls’ (Picture: Getty Images) Spend hours curating playlists exclusively populated with love songs? Always thought of yourself as a hopeless romantic?...
View ArticleStuck in the ‘roommate phase’ of your relationship? Here’s how to get out of it
Feeling like ‘flatmates’? You could be in the ‘roommate phase’ (Picture: Getty Images) As time goes on, relationships don’t always emulate the butterflies of the honeymoon phase. If you’re living...
View ArticleI went to a sex party but ended up with far more than a hook up
Sex parties at their core are about community, trust and friendship (Credits: Getty Images) For many, the idea of going to a sex party conjures images of anonymous hook-ups, dimly-lit venues, and a...
View ArticleI’ve been studying sexual fantasies for over a decade — here are the most common
The brain is an erogenous zone, after all (Picture: Getty) What can turn you on with just a thought? Is there a specific genre of erotica you always gravitate towards? What pops into your head when...
View ArticleBuried penis is the condition that no one talks about
Never heard of a buried penis? Don’t worry, we hadn’t either (Picture: Getty) Penis size is a concern for many men and, in fact, only half of men are happy with their member. But for some chaps,...
View ArticleThe surprising trait that can kill your sex drive
Shouldering the mental load can be a total mood killer (Picture: Getty) I was with my ex-boyfriend for two-and-a-half years. We’d moved in together and soon after, my sex drive all but disappeared....
View ArticleYou could be tolyamorous without realising it — but what does that mean?
A tolyamorous relationship dynamic is more common than you might think (Picture: Getty) ‘I genuinely like him and I love the guy, but the concept of fidelity doesn’t seem to matter much in our...
View ArticleDo you get horny listening to people have sex? There’s a name for that
Auralism means you’re turned on by sound (Picture: Getty) Hear us out: You’re horny so you put on your headphones and lie back in bed, listening to the wet sounds of kissing and deep breaths between...
View ArticleI’m getting married and it’s killing my sex drive
Austin doesn’t feel like he gets enough space from his partner on occasion (Picture: Getty) Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a...
View ArticleI’ve realised taking orders in the bedroom doesn’t make me a bad feminist
Outside of the bedroom, I am very bad at taking the backseat (Picture: Rachel Adams) My lover and I are standing across from each other, inches away from the bed. He’s just had a shower and a few...
View Article7 signs that someone likes you, according to a psychologist
Being well liked generally provides a feeling of contentment (Picture: Getty Images) Everyone likes to be liked. That’s just human nature. Whether it’s by your colleagues at work, friends old and new,...
View ArticleTurns out men can squirt and it’s not what you think
It’s not common knowledge but men can squirt just like women (Picture: Getty) When we think of squirting during sex, we think of women. But did you know that men do it too? Honestly, we didn’t either,...
View ArticleI thought my date had ordered an Uber back to mine – then I got in the car
Kimberley Bond had already fallen for Steven* when they met for a date (Picture: Kimberley Bond) I felt like I’d been trapped in the trenches for years when it came to dating, but when I looked into...
View ArticleI travelled 100 miles to get dumped and have the world’s worst sex
After picking me up at the bus stop we headed to a packed café (Picture: Getty) ‘I don’t think this is working out,’ my date, John, announced over brunch. Suddenly, the slice of sourdough toast I’d...
View ArticleI’ve seen thousands of vulvas and have a message for all women
I didn’t realise teaching vulva confidence would become part of my long-term career (Picture: Karina Lyburn) One hundred women’s faces were turned in my direction and I watched on as the shocked...
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